Challenges Prophetic People Face: Dealing with Rejection (Part 5)

I went through a low time when things weren’t going a bit smoothly prophetically.  The things I was hearing and releasing were not being received well — even the positive words.  In addition, misunderstanding of what I was speaking was so great that I wondered if some kind of spiritual language scrambler had been placed between my words and their hearers.   (We must be aware that the enemy does that, in an attempt to destroy relationships. We can’t let him have the satisfaction.)

During those many months, I agonized before the Lord about whether it might not be better to just give up on that part of His call on my life, keep it safely locked up in the prayer closet, never tell anybody.  But during that very low season, the Lord brought an article by Rick Joyner my way.  In it, Mr. Joyner explained that prophetically marching to the beat of a different drummer, having our words misunderstood, and — especially — going against the grain of the general prophetic consensus are all normal experiences for genuinely prophetic people.  And I began to take courage to try again.

That’s my small story, but let’s go on to look at what we should do when our prophetic revelation is rejected.

We must put our trust in the Lord and keep it there.  Throughout the Bible, God has promised to guide His own faithfully and to give them His understanding.  It may take time for a true word from the Lord to be revealed for what it is, but it will eventually happen.

We must be faithful to deliver what He has given us, and then let Him deal with how it all falls out.  It’s not right to try to protect our own skin by not speaking what He gives us.  That is disobedience to Him.  Jonah found this out the hard way. We may not end up in a fish’s belly like he did, but grieving the Holy Spirit by not speaking for Him should be the furthest thing from our hearts.

We’ve got to let go of whether we will ever be exonerated — because often, by the time other people start hearing the same thing or the prophecy comes to pass, no one is going to remember that we heard it back in the day.  Trying to vindicate ourselves by reminding them that we had it first stinks of self-exaltation.  True vindication can only come from the Lord, and it often doesn’t come through people who thought we were wrong suddenly changing their minds.

We must be willing to suffer humiliation.  Look at the prophets of the Old Testament.  They were regularly rejected and criticized for their true words from the Lord.  That hasn’t changed today.  Our personal popularity is not what prophecy is for.  It is for the Lord’s glory, the Lord’s purposes.

We must be more concerned at all times about what God thinks than about what man thinks.  The fear of man is a horrible snare to the prophetic person.  Indulging it shuts down the ability to speak accurately for God.  If you struggle with the fear of man, please see my post, What Will They Think of Me? 

We must realize that Jesus also was rejected.  Isaiah 53:3 tells us that He was despised and rejected of men.  We see throughout the gospels that He was misunderstood, criticized, and scorned.  Jesus said, “The disciple is not above his master, nor the servant above his lord.  It is enough for the disciple that he be as his master, and the servant as his lord” (Matthew 10:24, 25).  Sometimes that happens even within the household of faith, the church body.

We must give grace to those who don’t receive our word.  Anyone can make a mistake, and every one of us is still growing in maturity.  We are all affected by limiting mindsets that affect what we are willing to hear.  These mindsets develop because of past  painful experiences or are a response to present stressful circumstances we are going through.

We must be willing to be wrong.  Repeat: anyone can make a mistake, and every one of us is still growing.  We’re not going to get it all right all the time.  Your word may sound right to you, but others could very well be correct in discerning that it is off.  Generally speaking, if you give grace to others and speak from a servant’s heart, grace will be given to you in return.  Keep it humble.

It all boils down to whether we are willing to be God’s voice, no matter how people respond.  We can do our best to be as succinct and accurate as possible, be sensitive to the right timing, and have the right attitude, but then it is up to the Lord to use that word as He sees fit.

There was a time when I delivered a real word, but I did it pretty awkwardly, out of distress over its nature and anxiety of how it would be received.  I kicked myself about it for a long time afterwards.  But the Lord said, “Just leave it in My hands.  I will use it My way.”  It took a couple of years to see the result, and it didn’t look exactly like what I had expected, but eventually I recognized that, in a roundabout way, the word had accomplished the purpose for which it had been sent.  That is the way much of prophecy works.  The road to its fulfillment rarely follows a straight line.  Instead, the route is convoluted, but the important part is that God uses it His way, and the word does not return to Him void (Isaiah 55:8-11).

Next time: Challenges Prophetic People Face: The Comparison Game.

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22 responses to “Challenges Prophetic People Face: Dealing with Rejection (Part 5)

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  3. I have read a lot of your articles and being a prophetic person, I have found them very encouraging. Thanks


  4. Wwwwooowwwwww, I’m just going through the samething right now. Even feeling like I wanna go mute. Don’t ever prophesy or tell even dreams. Just got hammered by my mentor/apostle cause I gave a word to her son to protect his sister who is on an off in an abusive relationship. Man she told me off on a phone even telling me a certain family did not come back to join the church cause I put a prayer shawl on their son which I mean no harm. I dd that an prayed with him then told him why I dd that an his family was there. The boy was a walking time bomb. To my suprice thy were offended but I think thy wanted the prophet /apostle to pray with him now a black person touch their son. Wht I don’t understand she never said a word. To me about it. Now I feel so responsible plus this issue with her kids. I feel like I just wanna take a break an go away an seek God’s face to vendicate me. Cause I can b the course for the church not to grow. But this is so hard straight. U should have seen the cold shoulder I got @ prayer meeting last night. This is an eye opener. Thank u so much.


    • Hi Celina,

      I’m so sorry you are going through this rough season. We’ve all had them — some more than others. Every one of us does some immature things along the way that get us in trouble. And it is also a given that we will all sometimes be misunderstood for doing/saying things which were NOT immature, but were right-on. It is part of our refining process to make us humble and dependent on Jesus.

      Keep pressing on, don’t let the devil shut down your prophetic calling, and keep on growing. I hope the other articles at my blog will be of help to you, too.

      Thanks for dropping by and reading! 🙂

      Blessings, Lee Ann


  5. Great post


  6. am so interesed to read all passage. i love it, thanks for your knowledge


    • Thank you so much for reading at my blog, Elisha. I hope you will continue to find it useful!

      If you would like, you can subscribe to the blog (see right-side column) and get the newest posts directly to your e-mail. We send a PDF book to new subscribers, so if you are able to download PDF files, you might enjoy that, too, if you subscribe.

      Blessings, Lee Ann


  7. Amen truely blessed


  8. thanks for such encouragement


  9. Ms Lee Ann I have learned that I’m a Seer and what God may use me to warn of a situation that have not happened yet and really I don’t know why he’s using me to speak a word at the time. Then I may see what he had me to speak will come to pass in 2 months or a year. But my words are rejected because there’s no tangible evidence at the time and I may see someone suffer because they misunderstood what I had to speak. When I wrote to you this is what I was trying to explain bout being misunderstood and rejected. I do feel like I’m walking in a different time zone at times and I’m learning to live in the present. Walking in this office is very difficult because I’m rejected a lot.


    • Knowing which revelations to share and which to be silent about and just pray into is one of the most difficult things prophetic people deal with. On top of that, many pastors, even if they understand the prophetic gift, are not very happy about hearing “negative” words or visions — as in, a warning revelation.

      The first step when you receive such a word or vision is to spend time in prayer about it. Pray that the negative thing you saw would either be stopped from happening or minimized. Also pray about whether to release it or not to your pastor or the person it is about. Most of the time, if it is a personal word for somebody, it’s better to just pray for them, especially when you are young in the prophetic. You don’t want to unnecessarily trouble or frighten someone. And you may be able to keep it from happening, simply through intercession.

      If your vision or word is for the local church, you have to establish trust and credibility with your pastoral leadership first. You can’t begin by sharing negative revelation. It will turn them off every time. If you see encouraging things, share those. Express that you are praying for them. Be supportive in other ways, such as tithing and serving in whatever ways you can, not just in prophetic matters.

      Revelatory information about the local church should also be shared privately with the pastor. E-mail them or set up an appointment to talk with them, whichever they prefer. But again, you will need to develop trust with a positive message track record first. They need to know you are on their side, so to speak. Only after you have established that trust bond will you be heard when you have a warning. But in the meantime, just keep praying the warnings through.

      If something does happen where someone is hurt, just keep praying that God would heal them and set things right.

      I’m sorry that it is not easier than this, but it’s the way things tend to work. Keep listening to the Lord, turning what you hear or see into prayer, asking for His discretion about when to share, and keep trusting the Lord through it all. As you mature in prophecy, the Lord will show you how to handle negative revelation in such a way as to encourage those it is for, even when you do have to share something difficult. But, you probably need to grow more in your gift before that can happen.


      • Thank you so much I believe I’m on the right track and I do miss it at times. I have not had the opportunity to have to speak to pastors or any one in leadership he have shown me things and I do pray things through But the Lord may impress on my heart to speak and I struggle with the word because I really don’t like what I hear I go back and forward with God but until I’m obedient I have no peace until I deliver the word he gives me. I think in one season he (Holy Spirit) was dealing with me of the fear of man . I do believe the Holy Spirit is teaching me . However, I have had the fear of man because I’m not a confrontational person so that’s why it’s hard for me at times what I hear. Ms Ann I want to thank you for the wisdom and knowledge that you give I have prayed for a mentor and I believe the Lord lead me to read your article’s. And having this opportunity to receive from you. I have 2 of your books that I have read the samples of I will be purchasing ( personal prophecy an intercessor manual) Please forgive me if I stay on your blog because I’ve always had a lot of questions.


      • That’s quite all right. You are free to ask questions, and I will try to get to them as I have time. I think my books will answer many of your questions as well.

        The fear of man is something I personally struggled with big-time. So many of us do. 🙂


      • Thank you I read you are working on other books when will they be released


      • Thank you ,looking forward to reading them.


      • I’m reading your book on intercessor manual on the chapter of breakthrough intercession ; receiving our answers on page 46 you mention why some breakthrough takes time. I always had a question concerning this topic the Lord had me praying for my church for 4years and the warfare was very hard to the point it almost caused me my life but he intervened. There I learned concerning the jezebel Spirit. In the mist of him moving me I stilled carried the burden of the church and was still lead to intercede. Now that I’m at another church the burden at the church have lifted from me what was placed in my spirit I cried because I prayed and prayed my heart felt so much compassion. What I’m asking is was that my assignment for a season and now that I’m at my new church will this be my new assignment to pray something’s through.


      • If you no longer feel the burden, then the assignment is most likely finished. If the Holy Spirit is no longer giving the unction to pray into it, you don’t have to feel guilty about letting it drop. If He brings it up again at a future time, simply pick it up and pray into it again until the burden again lifts. Our prayers are never wasted or lost. It is in God’s hands, and He can still use the prayers you already prayed to bring a breakthrough down the road for them. Also keep in mind that if it is no longer your current church, it is no longer your territory. That is a very practical reason why He would lift the burden.

        The other thing we must keep in mind is that there will be times when breakthrough does not come (at least in the way we anticipated), due to people’s refusal. We can pray for their change of heart, that they would line up with Him, and many times a heart will miraculously change. But sometimes it doesn’t work out that way. When that happens, the Lord is working things out in a different way than we thought He would, but He may still answer the overall prayer, perhaps in a way we cannot currently see.

        Even if we didn’t pray everything exactly right, God values the intent of the heart and answers according to that. At the very least, the Lord will return the blessing upon the intercessor’s head, and your labor will not be in vain (1 Cor. 15:58).


      • Thank you I really needed to hear this. I’m starting to have peace bout a lot now, now that I’m readying your book it’s helping and answering questions that I had. U are truly a blessing thank you again Ms Ann.


      • You’re welcome. Glad I could help!


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